“once upon a time…”
Posted by hana in Books, ChapII, Events, Family, Friends, tags: birthday, literacyremembering aniq’s 2nd birthday where we somehow managed to get almost all the guests to dress up their kids as superheroes, i had a sudden flash of inspiration for auni’s 2nd and thought, maaaybe they’d humour me again this time round.
i’d developed a ‘fascination‘ with the fairy tale classics in the recent months, having realised what a treasure trove of rather twisted, backdated values, ideals and morals they represented, as i re-read (and over-analyse) them as an adult. it made me question how relevant these stories are in our modern times, and whether they are worth being retold, being so far removed from that world – where characters lived in woods amongst preying creatures; where occupations were predominantly menial; where the females were mostly depicted as being vapid, preoccupied with beauty, and matrimony was the ultimate goal; and where the males were the overall archetypal saviour. there was so much going on in those stories that the more i read them, the more i baulked at the logic, but LOL-ed at them anyway because come on hana, THEY’RE JUST STORIES FOR CHILDREN, right? who cares if Father Bear and Mother Bear slept on separate beds, or whether Rapunzel’s hair could actually withstand the weight of a grown man, or why anyone would want to kiss a dead woman in a glass coffin unless he’s a serial necrophiliac?
but the moralist nazi in me says, all stories MUST have a moral, dammit! so i wrangle them out as best as i can after every “The End”. i mean, surely there’s value to these classics for them to be so time-honoured, however preposterous they may appear to such a sceptic reader. and i do get that the universality of the themes of these western tales serve the purpose of creating a kind of collective consciousness. plus, anything that promotes literacy and the love of literature wins points in my books any time.
so anyway, for me, the one story that stands out the most with its richness in symbols is the tale of Little Red Riding Hood. from the colour red, to the chasteness of the cloak, to the naivety of the girl, to the wolf’s nature and true intention…
man, i could go on, but i won’t! coz for now, let’s just focus on HOW CUTE the children at the fairytale party were, shall we?
let me introduce to you the characters who appeared:
here’s Peter Pan, who flew in specially from Never Never Land for the party.

Snow White, who took time-off from the slavedriving dwarves. (btw, she won Best Dressed for her mummy’s excellent effort in creating and sewing her costume from scratch. kudos! the non-domestic goddess me is still in total awe.)

I think Alice’s Queen of Hearts’ husband, the King of Hearts, came in his mommy’s best shawl and brooch.

Aye aye, Captain Hook! where’s ye eye-patch, matey?

The Wild Thing put on his best brandon flowers’-inspired guyliner for the occasion. “let the wild rumpus begin!”

The Three Blind Mice. See where they, err, hide.

2 out of the 7 Dwarves came with their chaperone. (along with 4 Giants.)

a little fairy who was supposed to be Puss in Boots (notty pussycat!) but i guess her footwear was sent for mending at the Elves and the Shoemaker’s.

the activities kept them busy…

attempt at group photo. call in the trolls!

Gingerbread Boys and Girls, thanks to Kak Chomel, esah’s sister. off you go, into the baskets, before the greedy foxes eat you up.


special thanks to Keatar, my SIL’s BIL, for making these masks with his own bare hands. (ok, i’m sure there were scissors and glue involved, heh.)

special thanks to Ayu aka Simply Cupcakes @justjetaime, for presenting us with the cake. ![]()

“and i’ll HUFF, and i’ll PUFF, and i’ll BLOW THE CANDLE OUT!”

to family and friends who came to share the fun, on behalf of auni – THANK YOU! we’ll make darned sure auni remembers this birthday for the rest of her life. she’s already said “i LIKE!” when we asked if she liked her birthday party. (we also just reminded aniq of *his* 2nd superhero party by showing him the photos as evidence of our equal effort – he kinda forgot but now he’s really pleased with his parents, so.. yey us? ha ha.)
ps: special mention to the Daddy for his kickass side dish of homemade mexican chilli beans in taco shells and wraps. (trivia: his original plan was to cook kachang pool and nasi lemak, but i convinced him otherwise – lol.)






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What a lovely, lovely party! kids in costumes look adorable!
i’d be super thrilled too if i’m auni. you’re so good at this. I’m really super impressed with how you manage to come up w all these ideas for your children’s parties la. Well done, mommy!
N hey, is tt teacher imah?? Tt’s Adil’s fav teacher. (mine too. heh) She went to e new branch at tampines rupanye… She was e regular teacher at mygym civic centre here. To adil’s HeYUGE disappointment, we found it had closed down n moved to a different location. This after taking a 2-months long hiatus fr the classes. (blame mommy’s terrible, terrible all-day sickness!) He was so so so sad as we stood there staring at e vacant premise. Now i can tell him where teacher imah went too
Sucha lovely party! Auni memang attend classes at mygym eh?
I seriously must say that you have done a fantastic job on each of their birthday parties. My lost for missing the great party, especially for auni’s (2 years in a row!).
i like very the much! i want to do MY birthday party at mygym ah! haha
ive been passing by your blog for awhile,but never drop any comment.
this time i tink i should,bcos, i always thot your daughter auni has this
very natural smile and her actions in every photos are tooo cute.
loved the theme for this bday party…everyone and everything looked so
amazingly good..not overly done…
kudos to you and yr hubby.
Oo, there IS an entry on Auni’s b’day party, was looking fwd to it. Great party and so cute, the kids! Their parents did good dressing them up.
Loved the picture of Peter Pan meets Little Red Riding Hood, the RED cake, the baskets.. and how you reminded Aniq of his own 2yo party.
To Auni: Happy birthday, little one! It’s obvious how much you are loved and how much you love. May you grow up secure. Enjoy 2!
@famela: oh yeah, my cousin’s friend who was there that day said she brought her kid to the tampines branch coz the woodlands one closed down. you shd move here! isn’t tampines sham’s kampung?
@irris: no lah, i pass by the place very often (coz it’s so near century sq/tampines mall) but never put auni in coz she’s already in childcare centre, she’s got enough socialising and tumbling around as it is!
@ogy: yah! nevermind, insyaallah i’ll do another one…??? errrr. :p
@lynn: you nak? boleh! relive your childhood, ok jugak. haha.
@sis nor: thank you.
@sharon: ha ha, ’secure’ is a good wish indeed.
Hi Hana awesome bday party for Auni btw does ur fren take orders? I’ve actually tasted her cupcakes back then for a keater bengkel very nice!
Tampines is my old kampung too. Born n raised in e east.
but my mom aka loyal&indispensable babysitter is here, so in woodlands we shall stay.
amayuz: of course she takes orders! go to http://simplycupcakes.multiply.com to enquire.
awesome party!!! can u be MY birthday party planner? *winks*
happy 2nd birthday auni!!
i thought of you when i was at the borders warehouse sale at expo on friday. there’s a booth by this online shop and the lady sells those kind of kawaii tote bag and stuff. and there are a few items featuring red riding hood and the wolf. reminded me of your fixation with red riding hood. hehe. you ought to get some of those things just so that you can be think of them all the time.
anyway, you really think these stories are supposed to have sound moral values? i didnt do as extenseive a research as you did but i vaguely remember that the stories by the brothers grimm (or one of those authors from once upon a time) didn’t quite mean these stories to be for kids. after all, in those days, there was no other form of entertainment so stories like these (necrophiliacs and seven midgets with a penchant for sweet young things – which person of sound mind would allow their daughter to live with seven strange men under one roof, pray tell?) were actually meant for twisted adults?
Hi Sis Hana..
Im just a passerby..
I’d like to know how are the charges like having a kid’s birthday party at MY GYM..
hope U can share some information with me..
Regards,
Salmah
you can call up mygym and enquire directly…
Hi Hana
What are your main priorities in organizing a bdae party for your lil ones?
I’m planning for my 3year old boy.
Thanks!
Lisa Matin
hi lisa, basically date and venue are the most important, depending on who and how many people you’re inviting. good luck!
What an adorable birthday party! Love the Little Red Riding Hood outfit, the cake and the baskets! Fantastic!