Comments on: schadenfreude http://izadnhana.com/blog/2010/02/12/schadenfreude/ true love waits Wed, 08 Feb 2012 03:49:02 +0800 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1 By: thetripletmum http://izadnhana.com/blog/2010/02/12/schadenfreude/comment-page-1/#comment-9869 thetripletmum Sat, 27 Feb 2010 18:01:36 +0000 http://izadnhana.com/blog/?p=1630#comment-9869 omg! i'm like so lambat to read ur blog! and what can i say? i love this post to bits. not because i get pleasure from knowing that u have difficulties, just like any mother will have in raising our kids but because of your honesty. your honesty in sharing your experiences as you go along bringing up your kids. there is no such thing as having a perfect kid and we are the perfect mothers. we are always giving our all to give our kids our best and definitely along the way, we will screw it up in a way or another and same goes for our kids. it's all part and parcel of parenting. thank u so much for sharing. u RAWK big time hokay! ur blog RAWKS! omg! i’m like so lambat to read ur blog! and what can i say? i love this post to bits. not because i get pleasure from knowing that u have difficulties, just like any mother will have in raising our kids but because of your honesty. your honesty in sharing your experiences as you go along bringing up your kids. there is no such thing as having a perfect kid and we are the perfect mothers. we are always giving our all to give our kids our best and definitely along the way, we will screw it up in a way or another and same goes for our kids. it’s all part and parcel of parenting. thank u so much for sharing.

u RAWK big time hokay! ur blog RAWKS!

]]> By: hana http://izadnhana.com/blog/2010/02/12/schadenfreude/comment-page-1/#comment-9859 hana Wed, 24 Feb 2010 02:45:17 +0000 http://izadnhana.com/blog/?p=1630#comment-9859 hi naura, just wondering: what subject in university could this blog possibly be cited for?? lol. but thank you, feel free to do so anyway. :) hi naura, just wondering: what subject in university could this blog possibly be cited for?? lol. but thank you, feel free to do so anyway. :)

]]> By: naura http://izadnhana.com/blog/2010/02/12/schadenfreude/comment-page-1/#comment-9847 naura Fri, 19 Feb 2010 09:01:41 +0000 http://izadnhana.com/blog/?p=1630#comment-9847 Hey hana, love reading this entry and all other entries as well. Ive always loved reading your posts coz I am just so impressed at how you can write things that are close to the heart, but shows your intellectual level as well. And your command of english is just so wow. Seriously do keep it up, coz theres so many bloggers nowadays that just dun have that command of english that you have. If only we university students can use blogs like yours for quotes and citations for our essays,I think itll be more interesting as compared to those boring books. Haha. Keep rocking the blog aite ! Hey hana, love reading this entry and all other entries as well. Ive always loved reading your posts coz I am just so impressed at how you can write things that are close to the heart, but shows your intellectual level as well. And your command of english is just so wow. Seriously do keep it up, coz theres so many bloggers nowadays that just dun have that command of english that you have. If only we university students can use blogs like yours for quotes and citations for our essays,I think itll be more interesting as compared to those boring books. Haha. Keep rocking the blog aite !

]]> By: lynnmaharet http://izadnhana.com/blog/2010/02/12/schadenfreude/comment-page-1/#comment-9840 lynnmaharet Thu, 18 Feb 2010 08:40:55 +0000 http://izadnhana.com/blog/?p=1630#comment-9840 Eh saya suka sangat entry ini!! I believe in moderation for everthing! Too much dah tahap meluat haha! Ok nak catchup on ur other entries! Eh saya suka sangat entry ini!! I believe in moderation for everthing! Too much dah tahap meluat haha! Ok nak catchup on ur other entries!

]]> By: Shidah http://izadnhana.com/blog/2010/02/12/schadenfreude/comment-page-1/#comment-9834 Shidah Wed, 17 Feb 2010 14:46:15 +0000 http://izadnhana.com/blog/?p=1630#comment-9834 Hey Hana/Izad! Dunno if u still rem me (used to be blogmates but I became lazy & disappeared fr blogworld, lol!). Anw, I was gng thru abt d same thing just a few days ago. U noe, hw ppl get green eyed when u share ur joys with them. Sumtimes, us parents get overexcited so we share with ppl we think reli care. U dun like, just tell us.. Dun have to badmouth us right? Bt u hang in der.. U noe it's jealousy when ppl start putting u dwn huh? Only a true fren/family will share in BOTH happiness & joy. :) Hey Hana/Izad! Dunno if u still rem me (used to be blogmates but I became lazy & disappeared fr blogworld, lol!).
Anw, I was gng thru abt d same thing just a few days ago. U noe, hw ppl get green eyed when u share ur joys with them. Sumtimes, us parents get overexcited so we share with ppl we think reli care. U dun like, just tell us.. Dun have to badmouth us right?
Bt u hang in der.. U noe it’s jealousy when ppl start putting u dwn huh? Only a true fren/family will share in BOTH happiness & joy. :)

]]> By: Sharon http://izadnhana.com/blog/2010/02/12/schadenfreude/comment-page-1/#comment-9830 Sharon Wed, 17 Feb 2010 09:56:33 +0000 http://izadnhana.com/blog/?p=1630#comment-9830 haha, this entry almost makes me nostalgic for your "STOP WHINING! you're just like Aniq" exasperated telling off's. still think you're a good mum and love Aniq's 4yo way of asserting his independence. thought it was only teenage boys who hated baths! (Aniq the teenager :O) there is enough love/good to go around la, i think it's the kiasuism in us that fears losing out (even on the bad things?!!) humans are dongs! grin. keep regaling with your honest to heart stories. :) haha, this entry almost makes me nostalgic for your “STOP WHINING! you’re just like Aniq” exasperated telling off’s. still think you’re a good mum and love Aniq’s 4yo way of asserting his independence. thought it was only teenage boys who hated baths! (Aniq the teenager :O)

there is enough love/good to go around la, i think it’s the kiasuism in us that fears losing out (even on the bad things?!!) humans are dongs! grin. keep regaling with your honest to heart stories. :)

]]> By: Hook2Luv http://izadnhana.com/blog/2010/02/12/schadenfreude/comment-page-1/#comment-9829 Hook2Luv Wed, 17 Feb 2010 03:32:37 +0000 http://izadnhana.com/blog/?p=1630#comment-9829 Hana, this entry reminds me of my own challenges when dealing with my toddler. But jus to let u know many entries of yours have inspired me greatly and I'm thankful for your sharing... I especially adore how you are able to bond well with your children and kip them your priority despite being a full-time working mummy..hats off to u... :) Hana, this entry reminds me of my own challenges when dealing with my toddler. But jus to let u know many entries of yours have inspired me greatly and I’m thankful for your sharing… I especially adore how you are able to bond well with your children and kip them your priority despite being a full-time working mummy..hats off to u… :)

]]> By: Idah Meier http://izadnhana.com/blog/2010/02/12/schadenfreude/comment-page-1/#comment-9828 Idah Meier Wed, 17 Feb 2010 01:21:47 +0000 http://izadnhana.com/blog/?p=1630#comment-9828 Hai Hana... This is a good entry whereby you have actually listed down all the 'perangais' common children give to their parents.. Very jujur one..Some parents shared only the beautiful part of their children and praise highly of them tat at times readers of their blog wanna puke... (Like eh perfect nyer life simpolan nie plus praises of their loved ones) Children these days are so different from our time.. To add on : 1) "I not like attitude" - We as parents can be like explaining to them of the goods of for e.g. eat proper food.. cannot always eat Maggi or MacDonalds and after the long explainations, what we hear from them? "But I not like ah.." 2) "Buts attitude" - But I want, But I not like, But Why? - All these buts questions can actually rise up our BP and can blow our top.. Yeah I do.. Can be quite irritating at times kan.. 3) "Throwing tantrums" - Children these days... At times you can't expect how their reactions gonna be like.. They can go whining non-stop, give the 'Hummmpphhh' attitude, lawan cakap, fighting games with siblings, etc... On another note, children these days are more brilliant than our times.. They can tell us what they want to be when they grow up, in what type of house they wanna stay in, which car they would like to own, etc Appreciate very much on your interesting sharing.. Whatever it is YOU ARE A GREAT MOMMY!!! Watever mothers do are for the best interest of their children.. Better be honest in sharing than in denial... Signing off... Idah Meier Hai Hana… This is a good entry whereby you have actually listed down all the ‘perangais’ common children give to their parents.. Very jujur one..Some parents shared only the beautiful part of their children and praise highly of them tat at times readers of their blog wanna puke… (Like eh perfect nyer life simpolan nie plus praises of their loved ones) Children these days are so different from our time.. To add on :

1) “I not like attitude” – We as parents can be like explaining to them of the goods of for e.g. eat proper food.. cannot always eat Maggi or MacDonalds and after the long explainations, what we hear from them? “But I not like ah..”

2) “Buts attitude” – But I want, But I not like, But Why? – All these buts questions can actually rise up our BP and can blow our top.. Yeah I do.. Can be quite irritating at times kan..

3) “Throwing tantrums” – Children these days… At times you can’t expect how their reactions gonna be like.. They can go whining non-stop, give the ‘Hummmpphhh’ attitude, lawan cakap, fighting games with siblings, etc…

On another note, children these days are more brilliant than our times.. They can tell us what they want to be when they grow up, in what type of house they wanna stay in, which car they would like to own, etc

Appreciate very much on your interesting sharing.. Whatever it is YOU ARE A GREAT MOMMY!!! Watever mothers do are for the best interest of their children.. Better be honest in sharing than in denial…

Signing off… Idah Meier

]]> By: Mahd http://izadnhana.com/blog/2010/02/12/schadenfreude/comment-page-1/#comment-9827 Mahd Tue, 16 Feb 2010 01:32:15 +0000 http://izadnhana.com/blog/?p=1630#comment-9827 Hey, great entry. There's no point in berating yourself just because others deem it that that way. Thing is, everybody has their ups and downs and personally, I prefer that you write something that is successful and is exemplary to others instead of having something that others derived pleasure in (ie...your unsuccessful attempts at whatever it is that you did). I mean, yeah...babies and toddlers alike, they whine, they stamp their foot, their scream like a banshee, they do whatever they feel like doing. ain't that a common phenomena? So, chin up and well, keep on writing your witty anecdotes, ok? Hey, great entry. There’s no point in berating yourself just because others deem it that that way. Thing is, everybody has their ups and downs and personally, I prefer that you write something that is successful and is exemplary to others instead of having something that others derived pleasure in (ie…your unsuccessful attempts at whatever it is that you did). I mean, yeah…babies and toddlers alike, they whine, they stamp their foot, their scream like a banshee, they do whatever they feel like doing. ain’t that a common phenomena?

So, chin up and well, keep on writing your witty anecdotes, ok?

]]> By: Rahmah http://izadnhana.com/blog/2010/02/12/schadenfreude/comment-page-1/#comment-9826 Rahmah Tue, 16 Feb 2010 00:32:51 +0000 http://izadnhana.com/blog/?p=1630#comment-9826 Hey Hana, don't berate yourself too much ya. Like you said, most, if not all, parents have similar good & bad experiences as well, regardless of whether they voice these out or not. Raising kids & growing up are learning processes for both parents & kids, we can just try our best & leave the rest to Him. But I, for one, appreciate your honesty in sharing your experiences, your sincerity does ring clear. While it is hard to please everyone/not offend some people, don't let this prevent you from celebrating your/your family's joys (after all ppl can choose for themselves whether to tune in/out of your posts). So continue sharing ya, because there are many out there, like those who have commented here, who would like to share in your joys, as well as challenges. Hey Hana, don’t berate yourself too much ya. Like you said, most, if not all, parents have similar good & bad experiences as well, regardless of whether they voice these out or not. Raising kids & growing up are learning processes for both parents & kids, we can just try our best & leave the rest to Him.
But I, for one, appreciate your honesty in sharing your experiences, your sincerity does ring clear. While it is hard to please everyone/not offend some people, don’t let this prevent you from celebrating your/your family’s joys (after all ppl can choose for themselves whether to tune in/out of your posts).
So continue sharing ya, because there are many out there, like those who have commented here, who would like to share in your joys, as well as challenges.

]]> By: LadeeNesta http://izadnhana.com/blog/2010/02/12/schadenfreude/comment-page-1/#comment-9825 LadeeNesta Mon, 15 Feb 2010 16:50:22 +0000 http://izadnhana.com/blog/?p=1630#comment-9825 I agree with the others! You strike a balance, on the good days and bad. In my case, i learn from the good ways you nurture your kids. And feel normal that there parents out there having it hard with their kid(s) too. Your realistic painting of a life makes it easier for us to relate. With heart, remember? Cheer up hunn. :) I agree with the others! You strike a balance, on the good days and bad. In my case, i learn from the good ways you nurture your kids. And feel normal that there parents out there having it hard with their kid(s) too. Your realistic painting of a life makes it easier for us to relate. With heart, remember? Cheer up hunn. :)

]]> By: rruzanna http://izadnhana.com/blog/2010/02/12/schadenfreude/comment-page-1/#comment-9821 rruzanna Sun, 14 Feb 2010 14:45:28 +0000 http://izadnhana.com/blog/?p=1630#comment-9821 Hellu kak hana! *waves* Love this entry, it strikes a chord with my own situation and i must agree with the other girls here that yout english is really really goood. Though i'm not a mom yet, heckit not even a wife, but it does set in the mind realistic expectations of parenthood. It also reminds other mothers that they're not alone in this. (contrary to some ppl who's gg on and on and on abt how perfect everything in their life is). Gooooood job, i mean it! Now where's that 'like' button? Hellu kak hana! *waves*

Love this entry, it strikes a chord with my own situation and i must agree with the other girls here that yout english is really really goood.

Though i’m not a mom yet, heckit not even a wife, but it does set in the mind realistic expectations of parenthood. It also reminds other mothers that they’re not alone in this. (contrary to some ppl who’s gg on and on and on abt how perfect everything in their life is).

Gooooood job, i mean it! Now where’s that ‘like’ button?

]]> By: Dil http://izadnhana.com/blog/2010/02/12/schadenfreude/comment-page-1/#comment-9819 Dil Sun, 14 Feb 2010 03:55:27 +0000 http://izadnhana.com/blog/?p=1630#comment-9819 this should come with a 'Like' button. i've always enjoyed reading your blog about your double As and how much honesty u injected into your writing. you know why? coz ive read other parents' blog who will go on and on and on and on about how well-behaved/dengar kata/makan saman their kids are and well, my eyes kinda roll upwards and makes me go, 'come onnnnnnnn'. two thumbs up for a very-well written piece :) this should come with a ‘Like’ button. i’ve always enjoyed reading your blog about your double As and how much honesty u injected into your writing. you know why? coz ive read other parents’ blog who will go on and on and on and on about how well-behaved/dengar kata/makan saman their kids are and well, my eyes kinda roll upwards and makes me go, ‘come onnnnnnnn’. two thumbs up for a very-well written piece :)

]]> By: BB Gal http://izadnhana.com/blog/2010/02/12/schadenfreude/comment-page-1/#comment-9817 BB Gal Sat, 13 Feb 2010 16:44:52 +0000 http://izadnhana.com/blog/?p=1630#comment-9817 What I love about this post is that it's real. Even your earlier posts which speaks of happy things, it's real. At the end of the day, I think parents want to feel that it's ok to have good and bad days with our kids. There are some who write/speak in ways which makes us feel pretty uncomfortable with their verbal diarrhoea citing only all things good when it comes to parenting/family life. We need a bit of balance because really, we're all human and whether some have it better or worse, entries like this I'm sure, makes us feel safe, knowing that it's really ok to be human and we should embrace everything we go through as a family, good and bad alike. Thanks Hana, I reiterate...Lovely entry/entries. This one and everything else before. What I love about this post is that it’s real. Even your earlier posts which speaks of happy things, it’s real. At the end of the day, I think parents want to feel that it’s ok to have good and bad days with our kids. There are some who write/speak in ways which makes us feel pretty uncomfortable with their verbal diarrhoea citing only all things good when it comes to parenting/family life. We need a bit of balance because really, we’re all human and whether some have it better or worse, entries like this I’m sure, makes us feel safe, knowing that it’s really ok to be human and we should embrace everything we go through as a family, good and bad alike.

Thanks Hana, I reiterate…Lovely entry/entries. This one and everything else before.

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